Successful dating

by Annette Mavety

"Essentials Of Successful Dating Revealed" In the first instalment of your course, we're going to cover one of THE most important attributes for successful dating - CONFIDENCE.

Men and women alike - especially high achiever men and women, are looking for, and attracted to confidence in a dating partner.

I'm talking about a self-assured, personal confidence, rather than anything that looks at all like arrogance, dominance, or one-upmanship!

Genuine confidence is not to be confused with external consumer status symbols such as money, looks or possessions. Not that such factors don't have an influence in the confidence stakes of course, but they are no substitute for real inward confidence.

Sometimes even successful executives feel much more confident in their business roles than they do one-on-one with a new date. The interesting thing about confidence is that it is hard to "fake it" for long periods of time!

But there are things that one can do, and not do, to present oneself as a person with genuine confidence:

1) Have a genuine and warm smile.

2) Keep your posture straight, upright and confident looking, but also relaxed.

3) Look your date straight in the eye - don't keep glancing down, or have your eyes darting around the room.

4) Avoid nervous gestures and habits, like clicking your pen, fiddling with the drinks coaster, or scratching your nose.

5) Keep your conversation topics uplifting and positive. Definitely avoid complaining about previous relationships!

6) Be prepared to confidently tell them about yourself, sharing relevant and interesting stories etc., but don't bale up the conversation, with long accounts of the intricacies of your life - for instance, office politics!

7) Listen attentively, and reflect back the FEELING of what your date is saying, so that they feel understood.

8) When your date shares something from their heart, be sure to match the sincerity - never make light of it, or joke about it - this will kill respect!

9) Don't ask deeply personal or intrusive questions on your first date - remember that the development of any relationship follows a natural progression over time.

10) In preparation for your date always keep your mind filled with positive mental pictures of a successful date - if you let your thoughts be overtaken with fears of failure - you will communicate just that fear! This is almost certain to sabotage your results.

Confidence means...

You're able to talk without showing nervousness...

You're able to listen actively while your date is talking...and;

You're able to relax and enjoy the time, and the company, without projecting any other agendas. Article kindly provided by Simply Drinks.

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About the Author
Annette runs Romance 4 Millionaires, which is an international, exclusive, personal dating service where affluent and successful men and women meet compatible partners in a discreet and confidential manner.

She offers an exceptional level of service tailored to your individual requirements.

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Mastering Seduction: How to Stop Being a Nice Guy

by Matthias Mazur, http://www.seduceandkeep.com

One of the worst nightmares for a guy when it comes to seducing and dating women is falling in the trap of being a "nice guy". Although you must always treat a woman with respect and dignity, it's absolutely vital you do not become another "nice guy" around women.

So what exactly is a "nice guy"?

Well, a nice guy is a regular guy, a good guy.

To cut to the chase, nice guys don't have a clue about what they're doing.

- They buy roses on every other date they get with a new girl. - They try to earn her affections by getting her presents and fancy things. - They think they're romantic and poetic, but all they are is pretty lame. - They don't have the good momentum, and get put in the "friends" box. - They're so desperate to please women that they put their own personal needs (time alone, time with friends, etc) away, placing the girl on a pedestal. - Nice guys don't just appreciate a girl, they worship her.

But more importantly, nice guys are nice because deep down, they feel insecure.

And who wants to be dating an insecure guy?

Okay so here's the big question: how do you get a girl to pay attention to you, when there are literally billions of other guys on the planet?

Well, start by being unusual. Unusual in an enchanting way. You have to be desirable. Make them wanting more. Never give them what they want, especially not when you're trying to seduce them. And for God's sakes, STOP buying gifts on every other occasion.

Here's one of the best strategies: let her have a peak and shut the door.

BAM!

You get the idea.

Picture Will Smith, in the "Hitch" movie. In the bar scene, he approaches Eva Mendes in the coolest way possible, and blows away the guy to whom she was talking to just before. Will takes a seat, and has a light chat with Eva, and you can see she's interested. They talk for a couple of minutes, and just at the peak of the conversation, Will Smith gets up and leaves. And you can see Eva getting up and looking in the direction where he left. She was definitely interested, and the rest of the movie proves it well.

Now let's analyze that great little scene.

You can see that Will Smith obviously knows what he's doing.

He doesn't ask her phone number directly, he patiently waits for her to get interested. He acts and talks differently than most other guys, and that gets Eva intrigued.

And just at the moment when he feels she's finally taken off her built-in radar, he leaves her. And that's exactly what you need to do. A lot of guys get good things going by having a good conversation, but after a while that conversation becomes lame and by the time they ask her number, she's already gone, maybe not physically, but mentally.

Let other guys do the talking, let other guys buy expensive gifts, let other guys sink their own ships by being too nice and too cheap with women. Don't do the same mistakes that thousands of guys do when seducing women.

It's all about the attitude. Display the right attitude (stop being a nice guy) to build your way to more success with women, and smile when you see guys behaving like ass-kissers around women. Ass-kissers become friends. Confident guys (non-nice-guys) become daters.

About the Author
Matthias Mazur has developed a brand-new system for men who want more success in their dating lives. It is a complete resource to seduce, date, and keep any woman you want, even if you've never been on a date before or you've been rejected and dumped in the past. Check out his site at http://www.seduceandkeep.com to download your *free* report about "How To Avoid The 10 Killer Mistakes That Destroy Your Success With Women".

Dating Tip : 5 Effective Ways to Impress Your Date

by Wyatt Lee

Struggling for ideas on how to impress your date? In this dating tip guide, I have outlined 5 effective ways to set your lady's heart pumping into overdrive.

1. Make her feel special

If you can make her feel like a queen for a day, then half the job is done. Women somehow find it really irresistible, and will even be turned-on if she is being made to feel special. Show her that you value her company by telling her so over a nice romantic candle-light dinner. Pull out the chair for her. Open the door for her. Bark at the waiter if he is rude to her. These are little things that will make her think that you really cared about her.

2. Focus your attention solely on her

When going out with your date, make sure that you focus all of your attention on her. Yes, all of your attention, 100%. Never let your eyes wander about. You may find it hard not to steal a glance at that hot and sexy chick in the micro-mini walking past you. But please, for the sake of your date, don't look at that hot chick. Continue to focus totally on your date. You wouldn't want to be caught in a situation where she is talking to you, and yet your eyeballs are looking at something more interesting.

And when you are sitting down with her at dinner, make sure that you maintain eye contact with her, especially when she is talking. When she talks, you listen, occasionally nodding to show your approval. Make her feel as if she matters most to you than all the women out there.

3. Refrain from talking about your past relationships

You may have some very happy memories from your past relationships, or you may have screwed up some of them big time. Whatever it is, your date will not be interested in all of them. Sure, talking about your past relationships can bring back fond memories, but you can bet your last dollar that she will lose interest totally. Why? Because you are telling her that you can't let go of the past to step into the present. Which would mean that if she continues to be with you, she will be taking a step back instead of moving forward. Then soon you will realize that your story telling is turning her off.

So as a dating tip, always be willing to let go, and move on. Learn to live and let live.

4. Be sincere and genuine

Sincerity is the way to go. Your date will feel more comfortable if you can show her that you are really sincere about developing a relationship with her. In order to show your sincerity, you must first be your genuine self. Just be your natural best, and take it from there. Besides making her feel comfortable with you, your sincerity will also take a lot of pressure off her in order to impress you.

5. Keep your eyes wide open and be observant.

When you are with your date, keep your eyes wide open, and observe her every step. OK, maybe not her every walking step, but at the very least, take note of the things that she likes. Her favourite colour, her favourite chocolate, her favourite flower, her favourite dish. And to add an element of surprise, buy her the dress that she had badly wanted. She will most certainly be so impressed by your ability to pay attention to details that she will literally melt under your spell.

About the Author
Wyatt Lee has a passion for writing, and he writes extensively on the subject of dating and romance. Do you like the above article? For more of such articles, and more useful dating tips, please visit his Dating Tip blog.

How To Pick Up Women: The I-Casanova Method

by Ken Oboh

For thousands of years in our human history, the art of picking up women remained very much a mystery for men in general.

A few "gifted" guys, being naturally blessed with the skill of picking up women, found it very easy to attract and seduce women.

On the other hand, other guys (including me) had a very hard time getting Any dates with girls.

Fortunately these days, the art of attracting women is no longer a mystery and the skill can now be taught to any man alive, even those with ZERO natural talent.

And you don't even have to be rich, famous or good looking to become a successful "pick up artist."

There are three stages to any successful "pick up."

1) Approach: Never approach a woman with your body fully facing her. This signals far too much interest and you'll give off a desperate "vibe." Instead, try to stand at a slight angle to her body.

Always start the conversation with a comment, question or statement consisting of two qualities: humour and arrogance.

For example, you meet a girl you find attractive at a bookstore. You decide to pick her up by teasing her for just looking but not buying any books.

You could say "I couldn't help but notice that we've both been in this section for a while now. I didn't think beautiful women used my little old trick of reading entire books in bookstores for free while pretending to just check them out.

I thought only guys like me did that to avoid giving our money to the greedy bookstore owners. I'd rather give it to my greedy landlord instead."

2) Building Trust: The aim of this stage is to get a woman feeling that she can trust you enough to get physically "intimate" with you.

You do this through the art of story-telling. What type of stories? Any story that shows your sensitive human side.

For example, how you just lost your dear pet dog Buster, that you've had since you were ten years old. Or how you once helped a stranger while on holiday by protecting them from some local thugs.

By telling stories like this, she would feel like she's known you for years even if she only just met you.

When you do this correctly, you dramatically speed up the process of having An intimate physical relationship with her. If you don't do this right you could end up having to take her out on countless dates before you even kiss her.

3) Seduction: This is where you "close the deal" so to speak in a pick up situation. Women usually feel "cheap" if they get physical with a guy too soon in a relationship.

So the key to seduction is to use playful "physical" games to distract her from feeling "slutty." This will also give her an excuse to feel okay being touched by you.

Palm reading is probably the best thing you can do here. Start by taking her hand in yours and playfully reading it.

Then progress to playing other games that involves her elbows, shoulders, lips and other body parts.

So learn some games and apply them in your seduction. Just be sure you do it very slowly, don't just jump from the hands to the face. The key to success is to move to each new stage very "gradually."

These are just a few of my top tips I use and teach other men to use every day in order to become "modern day Casanova" seducers.

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About the Author
Ken Oboh, a.k.a. I-Casanova, is a self confessed "modern day" Casanova. His extensive experience in meeting and dating women forms the basis for all that he teaches to men looking to improve their ability to seduce the women of their dreams.

Author of the I-Casanova "forbidden secrets" of seduction, Ken's guidance is crucial to all men in today's sexually dynamic society.